Showing posts with label temper tantrum. Show all posts
Showing posts with label temper tantrum. Show all posts

Saturday, 12 February 2011

How To Stop Tantrum's Child At Public Area


 Children who have stopped raging at home also need to be told if tantrums in public will be the same rewarded. That consequences  may be difficult to the parents.When your little angels precious act in public is staring at you, scathing comments and chatter that is so cornered, you feel as a parent who has failed miserably. 

You are a precious little angel began raging in public, you have to give response.Tell him that you will not tolerate his behavior, but always start with a time-out, in a place where the child can try to soothe themself.


Just try this step : 
1. Tell the child that if he does not calm down, he will enter time out.Then count to five as a warning.
2. Then take your child to a quiet place for one minute for each year of age.
3.
Ask whether the child is ready to discuss the problem calmly.
4. Listen to the child, and thank him because he have talked.Take him  back to shop, eat, or whatever activity you are doing.
5. Back to your previous activity. 


Only when the child could not calm himself, then you say to him if you are with your child away from that place, and then really go with the kids following you.
We've left a lot of shop. We never left so much stuff in the shop.We've often said to the children if they do not calm down, they will sit in the security office until lunch over.We ever come out of the restaurant before the meal is presented, with six childs following, when one of them behaving outrageous (and then return to eat when the child has been quiet). 


Remember, the earlier you prepare your children about what will happen when you leave the house, the less likely they will behave strangely. (Nanny 911)


Wednesday, 2 September 2009

How to Deal With Temper Tantrums Calmly

mommies,children,parentingToddlers throw tantrums as a way of expressing anger and frustration. Learning to deal with temper tantrums takes patience, yelling and screaming will only cause the child to respond negatively. What causes a tantrum to form, how to deal with temper tantrums, to how to avoid a tantrum all together. This article will help answer your questions and help you and your toddler get past this phase.

Tantrums are evenly common among both boys and girls. Learning what causes tantrums can help you to deal with tantrums. Toddlers want a sense of independence, when they can't reach that goal, frustration and anger begin. They start to yell and scream, hit, or even throw themselves on the floor in fits of anger. Tantrums are a normal part of development and dealing with them is not difficult.

When you deal with temper tantrums always remain calm. Don't try to reason with a child who is having a fit, she is unlikely to listen to reason. Instead make sure she is in a safe place and allow her to kick and scream all she wants. Ignoring the behavior is one of the best ways to deal with tantrums. If a tantrum can be avoided please do so.

Preventing a tantrum from happening is the easiest way to deal with temper tantrums. A tired, hungry, or even bored child can be a big contributor to a tantrum. Avoid taking a trip to a friends house if your child has missed a nap or it's close to nap time. Schedule activities accordingly. Also, choose your battles with your toddler. Once you choose a battle stick to it though. Giving in will only make things worse.

An important thing to remember when you deal with temper tantrums is to stay calm and ignore the behavior. Don't punish the child, but don't reward the behavior either. They are just trying to learn how to express their feelings. They will grow out of this as they get older and learn to control their emotions.

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